Let’s
talk about love! RWA/NYC members share their thoughts on romance in celebration
of Valentine’s Day.
We
begin our blog tour with a real story. Thanks to Thea for sharing her love
story and a Happy Valentine Birthday to her husband John.
HOW I KNOW HE
LOVES ME
By Thea Devine
I watched the
other day as a male cardinal flew into our bird feeder, pecked at the seed and
then flew up to the branch above where his female waited, and gave it to her.
That is a
hero...He put his loved one first.
Does your hero put
his loved one first -- especially when he hasn't confessed yet she's his loved
one?
Does he always
tell her what she doesn't want to know (always a sure sign)?
Is he a guy who
takes out the garbage without being asked, cleans the cat box, does his share
of the cooking, shovels the snowed-up path to make it easier for you, makes
sure you don't trip on the curb you didn't see, copies the NY Times crossword
puzzle for you every Monday and Tuesday?
Would he do the
two a.m. newborn feedings? Carry your colicky baby around for
hours? Fix things like small electricals and minor plumbing? Build
bookcases for your ever expanding library and not complain?
Is he a problem
solver? A man of few words, a man of action? Would he search high and low for a
way to repair an almost irreparably storm damaged canoe just because you love
it?
Does he have your
back? Has he seen you at your worst -- and still loves you? Is he your best
friend?
Does he listen?
Does he give you
space to create?
These are all the
traits of my hero, and I confess, there's a little bit of him in every male
protagonist I write (don't tell). And he does all those small, loving things
and more (except the bird part) that are much more meaningful (to me) than
larger, grander gestures.
And so, dear
reader, I married him -- nearly 50 years ago, and all this time later, he is
still my love and my hero. His birthday is Valentine's Day, so apt, and this is
my Valentine's card to my beloved John. ♥
ABOUT
THE AUTHOR: Thea Devine's books defined erotic historical
romance. She's the author of twenty-seven novels and a dozen
novellas. She was honored by RT as a Romance Pioneer, and voted this
year's RWA/NYC Lifetime Achievement award. Visit her at www.theadevine.com.
Join
us tomorrow for another Romance Writer on Romance!
Nice post, and yes, mine has most of these qualities.
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ReplyDeleteAwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.... <3
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